〜たい vs 〜がほしい: How to Say What You Want in Japanese
The core difference
Both express a want, but they differ on what they attach to — a verb or a noun:
| Form | Core idea | Example |
|---|---|---|
| 〜たい | 'want to DO' — attaches to a VERB stem (drop ます, add たい) | 水を飲みたい = I want to drink water (the action of drinking) |
| 〜がほしい | 'want to HAVE' — attaches to a NOUN with が | 水がほしい = I want water (the thing itself) |
The rule is simple and unbreakable: たい rides on a verb, ほしい rides on a noun. Everything else follows from that — if there's an action, use たい; if you just want the object, use がほしい.
See it in one situation
Same water, same thirst, two different ways to want it:
ヤッタンは水を飲みたい。
やったんは みずを のみたい。
Yattan wants to drink water.
Verb 飲みます → stem 飲み + たい — the want is about the ACTION of drinking.
ヤッタンは水がほしい。
やったんは みずが ほしい。
Yattan wants water.
Noun 水 + がほしい — the want is about HAVING the thing itself.
The first says Yattan wants to perform an action (drink). The second says Yattan just wants the object (water) — maybe to drink it, maybe to water a plant. The verb makes the intent specific.
〜たい — want to DO an action
Use 〜たい when you want to carry out an action. Take a verb, drop the ます, and add たい: 食べます → 食べたい, 行きます → 行きたい. It conjugates like an い-adjective (食べたくない, 食べたかった). With a direct object you can use を or swap it for が — both are heard.
モチは寿司が食べたい。
もちは すしが たべたい。
Mochi wants to eat sushi.
Verb 食べます → 食べ + たい; the object can take が (食べたい often prefers が).
弟は日本へ行きたいです。
おとうとは にほんへ いきたいです。
My little brother wants to go to Japan.
行きます → 行き + たい — the want is the action of going.
Because たい needs a verb, "want to sleep," "want to buy," and "want to rest" are all たい: 寝たい, 買いたい, 休みたい.
Full details: 〜たい guide.
〜がほしい — want to HAVE a thing
Use 〜がほしい when you want to possess an object. Attach ほしい to a noun, normally with the particle が: 新しい靴がほしい ("I want new shoes"). ほしい is an い-adjective, so it negates and pasts like one: ほしくない, ほしかった.
モチは新しいかばんがほしい。
もちは あたらしい かばんが ほしい。
Mochi wants a new bag.
Noun かばん + がほしい — the want is for the thing, no action involved.
弟はお金がほしいです。
おとうとは おかねが ほしいです。
My little brother wants money.
Noun お金 + がほしい; you cannot say お金をたい — たい needs a verb.
If you ever want to say "want to have," you can still use the verb: 持ちたい ("want to hold/have") uses たい because 持つ is a verb — but for plain "I want a thing," がほしい is the natural choice.
Full details: 〜がほしい guide.
A note on other people's wants
Both たい and ほしい describe the speaker's own want. To report what a third person wants, Japanese switches forms: たい → 〜たがる (弟は行きたがる = "my brother wants to go"), and ほしい → 〜をほしがる (弟はお金をほしがる = "my brother wants money"). Notice ほしがる takes を, not が. You'll meet these later — for now, just know that plain たい/ほしい are for saying what you want.
Common mistakes
- Putting たい on a noun. "I want water" is 水がほしい, never 水がたい or 水をたい. たい needs a verb; a bare noun takes がほしい.
- Putting がほしい on a verb. "I want to eat" is 食べたい, not 食べがほしい. If there's an action, use たい.
- Using ほしい with が for other people. For yourself it's お金がほしい; for a third person it becomes お金をほしがる. Don't say 弟はお金がほしい as a flat statement.
- Forgetting to drop ます before たい. It's 飲みたい (from 飲みます), not 飲みますたい.
Quick recap
- 〜たい = "want to DO" → attaches to a verb stem (飲みます → 飲みたい).
- 〜がほしい = "want to HAVE" → attaches to a noun (水がほしい).
- Verb → たい, noun → がほしい. That's the whole decision.
- Both are い-adjectives: たくない/たかった, ほしくない/ほしかった.
- Both are for your own want; a third person uses たがる / をほしがる.
Your turn
Choose 〜たい or 〜がほしい for each sentence, and attach it correctly to the verb or noun.
___に入れるのに最もよいものを選びなさい。
Which expression best fits the blank?
私が留守の間あなたのうちに犬の世話をして___。
Frequently asked questions
What's the quickest way to choose between 〜たい and 〜がほしい?
Look at what comes before the 'want.' A verb (an action) takes 〜たい: 飲みたい ('want to drink'). A noun (a thing) takes 〜がほしい: 水がほしい ('want water'). Verb → たい, noun → がほしい.
Why is 水がたい wrong?
たい must attach to a verb, but 水 is a noun. 'I want water' is 水がほしい. If you mean the action of drinking, use a verb: 水を飲みたい ('want to drink water').
Should I use を or が with 〜たい?
Both are acceptable with a direct object. 寿司を食べたい and 寿司が食べたい are both correct; が is very common with the 〜たい form, especially in careful speech.
How do I say what someone else wants?
Plain たい/ほしい are for your own want. For a third person, use 〜たがる for actions (弟は行きたがる) and 〜をほしがる for things (弟はお金をほしがる — note を, not が).
The patterns compared here
Full guide for each pattern in this comparison:
